One thing I do know is that everybody wants love and to be loved. It can bring such joy and happiness into our daily lives. It allows us to feel more pleasure. We can feel valued, wanted and appreciated and the once again happiness. But to truly be happy we must learn to forgive. Firstly, we must begin to forgive ourselves. So often we judge and criticize ourselves for what we have done or haven’t done. Compassion and understanding will lead you to forgiveness.
It may be difficult at first but keep working on forgiveness, then it can turn into a habit. Practice and practice until in the end you can forgive yourself. When you full give yourself self acceptance begins and self-love grows. Then life becomes easier as forgiveness is the only thing that will cleanse emotional wounds. Forgiveness is the only way to heal them. Love is the medicine that accelerates our healing. There is no other medicine other than unconditional love. Learn to love yourself, your neighbour and your enemies.
We cannot love others until we learn to love ourselves. There is only one way to be truly happy and that is to love. You can not be happy if you cannot love yourself. That is the fact. You cannot share what you do not have. We often have a need for a love and if someone needs us that is often called love. Don’t lie to yourself. That is possessiveness. It is selfishness. It is control with no respect, not love. Love yourself and be happy.